alt Hacker News1. Are you under rent control?
2. What is your income and what is your rent?
While I appreciate the anecdotal data point, it’s easy to conflate personal situations to “this is what everyone else can do”. I say this because for a good 5 years I lived with my spouse in a $2k single bedroom apartment in San Francisco that was under rent control when both of us were raking in tech money. It’s doable, but not something that you can extend to everyone in the country.
Good question. We make tech money and rent a 3bed. No more rent control than SF defaults, we’ve only been here 2 years.
The shocking part is that we pay 5k in rent, but mortgage on the same place would be closer to 9k. Plus the commitment part (annual lease vs 30 year debt)
Very important to do your own math on these things and not just follow common wisdom.