Done a few projects with OpenCV myself, and your list of issues reads as if you throw OpenCV and opencv_contrib into the same bucket. Which you shouldnt. And maybe your assessment is outdated here and there and it is time to look again.

- OpenCV is Apache license. Yes, it used to be more complicated.

- The only patented algorithm I am aware of, SIFT, used to be part of opencv_contrib. And the README in opencv_contrib would greet you with a warning, that the code may not be fit commercial use for various reasons. Only when the patent expired, it was moved into OpenCV core.

- Same observation for Aruco marker detection, which was in contrib for a long time because the options to choose from were either not-well-maintained or GPL-licensed code. It is now in core OpenCV (and Apache).

- Despite its age, I think that OpenCV is still more than relevant today. And being part of modern languages like C++, Swig, Java and Python (and for years already) is part of that. Still I was surprised how long they maintained OpenCV 2 and 3.

- Over the past releases and few years, my impression was actually that core API was very much stable(izing). Cant say what happened in contrib – or what it feels like when you treat core and contribute as one and a feature progressed from contributing to core.

- I do agree, that I usually I would check that a MINOR releases wasnt actually a MAJOR release, breaking some API or behavior I was relying on. I am hoping that Version 5 is pulling the ambitions for making things differently away from Version 4. So v4 can be used stably ;-)