I am not talking about any conflict in particular. I am just pointing out that this is the consequence of that kind of policy.
The world is not black and white.
And that also gives you the right to choose what part of the grayscale you want to be, good on you!
You have stated you agree that wars between nuclear powers are extremely foolish.
It's difficult to say how you can stop such wars if you don't know what the war is.