> Not to disparage American school system (my country’s is worse) but it’s very much easy mode

I used to be very upset about how low the bar of the US school has when it comes to STEM subjects. There was a meme that contrasted the difference between maths in 1970s and 2010s. In the meme kids used to learn how to find the area of an irregular shape, while now the kids are asked to color a regular shape.

But then I made peace, as I realized that the US people simply didn't think that it was that important to push everyone to be good at STEM -- just some level of general understanding is good enough. To most people, the level of STEM as in IIT's JEE or in various national entrance exams in Eastern European countries is for elite students. The US school systems would rather have kids spend more time on sports, on ECs, on APs of kids' own choices, and etc. That's really just different trade offs. For parents like me, that means I don't have to worry about ECs, but I'll have to find tutors, serious tutoring schools like AOPS, and private teachers for STEM subjects. Or if my kids are truly talented, I'll guide them to find the right study groups, summer camps, and college courses.

I used to feel pain as I believed that the students in the middle, which were the majority, would be left behind. But I realized, especially after I've got kids, that the majority of the students were not into STEM anyway. If they had a choice, they'd rather spend time watching YouTube channels and hang out with their friends.