You talk about common sense and see a sea of people who are trying to lose weight (cdc says about half of adults in the US[1]) at very low success rates (<1% according to this study [2]) and think: they must be ignorant or not trying hard enough. I just don't really see how you could reasonably make that case.
1. https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/products/databriefs/db313.htm#:~:te....
I don't really know what to tell you. Again, I understand weight loss can be extremely difficult. What's the conclusion you're trying to get me to accept?
Telling somebody that they're ignorant or not trying hard enough isn't exactly constructive. But neither is digging up studies trying to convince people that they can't achieve some level of fitness. It's science, but somebody else's failure doesn't determine yours. Again, common sense.
You need to examine your life and figure out what factors contribute to your weight gain. Is that already unreasonable?