alt Hacker NewsTailscale Operator for Kubernetes sounds like it'd fit your second bullet point. It's has a really good experience. I've only used for my person homelab but I've been more than impressed by it.
Tailscale Operator for Kubernetes sounds like it'd fit your second bullet point. It's has a really good experience. I've only used for my person homelab but I've been more than impressed by it.
It could however I specified mDNS so other developers won't be required to use tailscale (or to run a dns server)