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forthwalllast Wednesday at 6:31 PM5 repliesview on HN

I think it's ok to be hypocritical and have friends with different vastly political beliefs, in the end relationships; friendships, lovers, etc are not usually an outcome of rational behavior, so I don't mind having friends who are politically different because it's the unconscious connection that brought us together.

As long as there's respect that's what matters.


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pokstadlast Wednesday at 6:33 PM

Politics aren’t the outcome of rational behavior either. The strongest belief systems that people have are instilled in them at a young age. Also, people can change.

zelon88last Wednesday at 6:39 PM

Politics is more regional than any other single factor. Like religion.

You're highly unlikely to grow up Protestant in Israel just like you're highly unlikely to going to grow up with liberal views in Tennessee.

Second to geography is demographic. You're unlikely to support DEI if you're surrounded by 90% white people all the time, and you're unlikely to decry globalism after you've been exposed to large cities and dense population centers for a long time.

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stretchwithmelast Wednesday at 6:34 PM

Different brains having different experiences reach different conclusions.

If two people don't have some different opinions, at least one of them isn't thinking for themselves.

shw1nlast Wednesday at 8:16 PM

yeah I tried to include this via

"It’s not that truth-seeking is a requirement for friendship, far from it."

agree (and thanks for reading)