How do you avoid the pain of someone expressing a particularly hurtful political opinion (i.e. entire class of ppl should die) if you don't filter relationships by political beliefs?

I generally keep people's political opinions at arms length, as some relationships are worth the pain or lack of depth. But it has caused unforseen pain at times, and hurts when relations from different spheres interact negatively.

yeah I sorta mention it in the footnotes, I find writing a nice medium for this because there's less gaslighting / interrupting

so I guess I agree to some degree