I'm not the most experienced in huge DBs and can't write anything off, but I've never seen a horizontally sharded DBMS work well, even Citus which allegedly does. There's always been a catch that seems worse than manually doing sharding at a higher level than your DB, not that that's easy either.
I'd argue that horizontally sharded databases can work well, but they do tend to have significant non obvious tradeoffs that can be pretty painful.
There's a handful of companies that have scaled Citus past 1PB for production usage, but the examples I'm aware of all had more engineering to avoid capability or architecture limitations than one might like. I'd love to see someone come back with a fresh approach that covered more use cases effectively.
Disclaimer: former Citus employee
Vitess and planetscale seem to have quite a number of high profile users who have lauded its capabilities. A search through hn history pops up a few.
As someone who has primarily worked with Postgres for relational concerns, I’ve envied the apparent robustness of the MySQL scaling solutions.