Yeah once you've been using it long enough for the Stockholm syndrome to set in, you come to terms with the hostile parts of the language.
If you say so. For me it's always been the opposite - I'm excited at the start about all the cool features, then slowly get disillusioned because of the warts.
I suspect a lot of us don’t have strong feelings either way and don’t find the verbosity “hostile”. No need for Stockholm syndrome if you don’t feel like a prisoner.
Of course you may have been joking, in which case “haha”. xD