Thanks a lot! This finally did what I want:
widget.non-native-theme.scrollbar.style = 4
widget.non-native-theme.scrollbar.size.override = 20
Though I'm not sure if I maybe want:
widget.non-native-theme.scrollbar.style = 3
widget.non-native-theme.scrollbar.size.override = 30
Plus of course that, which I had found earlier and did nothing on it's own:
widget.gtk.overlay-scrollbars.enabled = false
layout.css.scrollbar-width-thin.disabled = true