Someone once described the secret to making magic as putting in far more effort than any reasonable person would, such that no reasonable person would think you'd done it the hard way.
Teller, from Penn and Teller, I think https://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Penn_%26_Teller
That reminds me of the Ricky Jay article in the New Yorker. What an amazing guy! https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/1993/04/05/ricky-jay-magi... It so worth the read and there's no paywall.
Penn & Teller, although someone else might've said that before them.
It's also (approximately) Lawrence of Arabia; at least the same principle.
Lawrence puts out a match with his fingers as a showy trick. Someone else tries it, and cries out that it hurts, then asks what the trick is. He replies, "the _trick_, William Potter, is not _minding_ that it hurts."