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aswerty07/31/20251 replyview on HN

Great template.

It certainly reflects the process I've gone during some difficult conversations, at least when I did them well. And I've certainly done the other approach where I just dug my trench and they dug theirs; oh lord, is it a terrible approach!


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paulcole07/31/2025

Thanks! I tried to distill down what was in Difficult Conversations:

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B004CR6ALA?ref_=ppx_hzsearch_a_con...

I think even a bad difficult conversation is better than no difficult conversation so just giving the managers I work with some tool to compel action is valuable.