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ecb_penguin08/01/20258 repliesview on HN

Yep. It's wonderful throwing a few extra bucks to some euro waiter and watching them treat you better than everyone else.


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preommr08/01/2025

> "treat you better than everyone else."

People say this, but what is better service?

It's not like you get better or more food, or get the food faster since all that depends on the kitchen that isn't getting tipped directly.

It's pretty much them coming to your table to take your order. I'd much rather have a free burger or drink (the equivalent of what I could get instead of tipping) with the slow service than get my water refilled every 5 minutes.

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omnimus08/01/2025

When they treat you better? In the last 2 minutes after you payed just before you leave?

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Ballas08/01/2025

In my experience they are often confused and sometimes insulted. Generally I found tipping to add friction to the transaction.

iammrpayments08/01/2025

When I visited the US I’ve noticed some waiters would treat you worse or just ignore if they found out you were a tourist, so when I could I would order something small and pay right away with tip, just to get basic service. So your comment makes 0 sense.

closewith08/01/2025

I think most of the time this happens, you just don't realise the wait staff is patronising you. You certainly aren't buying better service.

kelnos08/01/2025

That feels disturbingly like a lite version of paying someone to be your friend. Maybe we should just all treat each other well (in both directions) and not reduce manners and social graces to a financial transaction.

maxbond08/01/2025

I'm curious whether you have ever worked in the service industry?

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Panoramix08/01/2025

That sounds a lot like bribing