> Being bad at apps means you are either ugly, or your pictures are bad.

For the record, I assume you are speaking about men whom are seeking women. The reverse is certainly not true.

    > He had ... an obvious 6 pack.

This is very specific. Did he have shirtless photographs? I assume yes.

It fascinates me that if you listen to what women say, 95% will say they dislike dating profiles the most when the man has shirtless photographs. Yet, 95% of women will also say that guys with a six pack are hot. It reminds me of the old adage: "Watch what women do, not what they say."