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Reflecticonyesterday at 9:10 AM3 repliesview on HN

I'm sorry that happened to you. That's so horrible. Wanna make me beat up bullies, man. Got damn bullies.


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objektiftoday at 1:06 AM

I do have dreams of beating up bullies. Count me in.

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kakacikyesterday at 10:24 AM

Their life is shit already, that's why they act as they act, passing aggression on to others in vain effort to get rid of some of that 'evil' in them.

I understand this knee-jerk reaction very well, but it just feeds the neverending spiral of aggression. We humans act like storage of both good and bad, it then comes back up in various situations.

What I want to say - you just beating up a bully will mean some other kid(s) will get beaten up (or beaten up even more) further down the line. I am not saying love can fix it all, it can fix many things but sometimes once people become broken they just stay broken and there is no real way back.

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squarefootyesterday at 7:43 PM

Most bullies just vent out what they suffer at home, school or workplace. They already punish themselves by not reacting against the real source of their problems.

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