alt Hacker NewsHow are you dodging the cross-concerns of 'people who use the app more are more likely to dump money into it'? At present, customers who pay are more desperate than customers who don't, so income is directly tied to customers who can't find a partner.
probably a longer answer is warranted, but we keep it simple - everyone pays - which essentially eliminates ghosting and self-selects for people who are serious about a search for a partner.