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JoshTriplett11/04/20252 repliesview on HN

Nope. I won't work with people who think my friends shouldn't exist. And I won't work with people who think doing that is somehow childish.


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Oper_5211/04/2025

> people who think my friends shouldn't exist

What does this mean? Are you talking about people who openly support actual murder? Almost everyone is opposed to that, of course.

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echelon11/04/2025

Imagine the flip side. We could easily wind up in that world too.

The best defense against polarization is a strong and cohesive middle ground.

If you pull to far in the other way, all the bonds break. And it's a race for each interest group to seize power, rather than having some intermediating force that serves as a buffer.

Again: look at the political climate. It's a reaction. The pendulum is swinging harder and harder because we've given up on the middle ground.

Most of the people you hate (and you do seem to dislike them at least a little bit) have honestly never had an LGBT friend. Imagine if they did how that might change them.

Instead they hear voices from the LGBT community that want to outlaw them and their way of life. That's pretty hostile. And definitely is going to be met with the same attitude you're giving them.

I'm LGBT and I have many conservative friends. They're more apt to come around to it than you believe. You're shutting down any conversation before it can even happen.

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