There is another way to think about things, which is that people shouldn't have to talk so much unless say they're a part of a family. For people communication outside their family, there should be tighter contractual obligations that define interactions and expectations.

To say it differently, define the smart contract that details the expected behavior! Everything else is then supposed to be mechanical. If one doesn't want to abide by the contract, one doesn't then get the associated payments or privileges!