"I was so happy to get locked into a different eco system" is all I hear.
You wouldn't get a phone in 2007 that didn't lock you in to something; the question is whose ecosystem you'd prefer to deal with.
I remember the Verizon crapware phone experience well.
I would say their comment had a lot more nuance and thought put in to it than yours did.
Spinning up a competing carrier has a much higher barrier of entry, though, than creating a new mobile phone. If my only choices are carrier-controlled or manufacturer-controlled, I will choose the latter. Gives me way more options.