I don't think China wants to destroy Taiwan. They want it to be a part of China.
China wants to destory Taiwan's democracy, as OP said quite correctly.
By force. Because Taiwan doesn't want to be a part of Beijing's China.
Come here, chicken. I don't want to hurt you, I just want to eat you!
Become a part of a country with no freedom of speech? Yep, that's destruction.
Right now there is no non-violent path to achieving that because Taiwan intends to violently and militarily resist if it comes to that. Probably with the aid of America, although I’m a lot less certain of that than 5 year ago, and it’s looking like it’s a lot more likely to be with the aid of Japan as well.
Also a success by the PRC would still result in the political destruction of the Republic of China and the subjugation of its people.