Surprisingly, 3GB is a real practical RAM limit for aws lambdas in 2025: you can only have more than that if you submit a support ticket. But it's not really mentioned anywhere in the docs.
https://aws.amazon.com/about-aws/whats-new/2020/12/aws-lambd...
Is what you're talking about a new thing? Or respectfully, are you just wrong?
https://docs.aws.amazon.com/lambda/latest/dg/gettingstarted-...
The default Lambda quota for all accounts is 10240 MB. I've never seen it below that (in recent memory, at least), even on fresh accounts not connected to a big org.
I know I routinely use 10gb of RAM for my account that's never talked to support for the related CPU allocation.