Perhaps it's time to organize a curated "stable" stream for npm packages.
If I want more stability for my OS I can choose Debian-stable rather than Ubuntu-nightly.
But for npm, there doesn't seem to be the same choice available. Either I sign up to the fire-hose or I don't.
I can choose to only upgrade once a month, but there's a chance I'm still getting a package that dropped 5 minutes before.
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minimumReleaseAge: 43200
Upgrading once a month is insane at any rate, I could see the point in upgrading maybe once a year. For stable projects, you're very much fine upgrading only when there's a vulnerability or you need something from a newer release. Upgrade when you actually need to and use stable versions that have been out for a while, no need to hamster wheel it.