A lot of tech people online also don't know how to examine their own feelings, and so think they are mysterious and un-defined.
When really they are an actual feedback mechanism, that can totally be quantified just like any control loop. This whole 'unknowable qualia' argument is bunk.
If theyre unknowable, are they not metaphysical and thus should be discarded in reasoning about them?
What's the difference between qualia and a soul?