The only thing that sentence says is that it’s impossible to understand math without understanding the language of math and how it is constructed. Not sure how that is controversial or gatekeeping. If you are annoyed at that comment saying “learn” instead of “be taught”, I think that’s a pedantic argument because the argument wasn’t about that at all.
"Can I enter your gate?"
"In order to enter this gate you must know what this symbol means."
"I am unfamiliar with that symbol."
"Well, I expect you to learn what it means before I allow you to enter this gate. Now go away."