I’ve been using “autism that I care about” because a large number of people I encounter are on the spectrum / neurodivergent (hobbies and work I suppose) that require very different interventions and accommodations that people with whatever you call significantly affected people with autism are called (eg, Rain Man, etc).

Not that people low on the spectrum aren’t important, they are, but that just using standard interaction tactics that I would with non-spectrum people works well enough.

So trying to save time that someone doesn’t need to interrupt the conversation to say they are on the spectrum and can only eat smooth foods or whatever.