Schmoozers learned grit and grind? That's opposite of my experience and observations.
What role do you play in the educational neglect? I am not sure I understand the decline here.
145 -> 120 IQ decline
Because I can’t access good schools and teachers. Because I didn’t schmooze to the admissions directors and other gate keepers.
I should’ve worn better clothes, driven a Porsche, and displayed the right shibboleths. Except that even now I’m too immature and stupid to know what they are.
> What role do you play in the educational neglect?
Not the person you're responding to, but that's uncalled for.
There are many variables that go into a child's development. The parents are merely one of them. They can do their best and things can still go south.