> DEI does not provide benefits

I don't know how you can define DEI without enumerating benefits these policies provide to certain groups of people, some of which, like the ones being discussed, have very flexible boundaries.

> No one gets a DEI check from the government.

We are discussing private institution(s). But if left unchecked that could expand to local governments.

> But since you don't even see that others around you have disabilities

Oh, I've seen plenty of people who had disabilities for the purposes of draft/mandatory military service.

> we can't really expect you to know much more than Fox tells you.

Your ability to figure out other people's information sources is most certainly no better than my ability to figure out if people have mental disabilities.