What's wild about software is we don't do 1/10th as much planning as "real" engineering projects do, and also find ways to create problems akin to the ones they run into from interfacing with an unpredictable real-world environment, by inventing ways for all our platforms and libraries and such to be insanely unstable.

If you're not subject to the batshit insanity of the broader software market, and you crank the planning up a little closer to what "real" engineering does, software delivery gets extremely predictable. See: NASA's Space Shuttle software development processes.

(There are actual, not self-inflicted, problems with software development that "real" engineering doesn't see, though—for one thing, you can't on a whim completely restructure a building that's already been built, and for another, you generally don't have to design real-world engineering projects to defend against the case of intentional sabotage by someone who's just e.g. using the bathroom—it may happen, but it's rare and short of wacky Mission Impossible type plans, busting a water pipe in the bathroom isn't going to get you access to super-secret documents or anything like that)

Physical real-world projects include a buffer for this, called "contingencies" or "change orders" so that if a requirement changes or they discover something like previously unknown site geology that will require changes to the foundation they can absorb it. Based on a large history of similar projects their estimates are usually pretty good but occasionally they will run over.