90% of all childhood sexual assaults are perpetrated by close family and friends[1].
If stranger danger is a motivating factor here, statistically, you should side-eye your close friends and family much, much more often and never leave them alone with your kids.
> But I'm pretty sure that like 50+% of interactions with family aren't crime.
You can say the same thing about social media interactions.
[1] https://www.cdc.gov/child-abuse-neglect/about/about-child-se...
You've misunderstood this conversation and/or are applying statistics extremely poorly. This is not serving whatever point you're trying to make, and is a distraction from productive discourse.