Remix 2 is beautiful in its abstractions. The thing with NextJS Roadmap is that it is tightly coupled with Vercel's financial incentives. A more complex & more server code runs ensure more $$$ for them. I don't see community being able to do much change just like how useContextSelector was deprioritized by the React Core team.

Align early on wrt values of a framework and take a closer look at the funder's incentives.