Sorta like how the proper order of a murder-suicide is to do the suicide part first before the murder

I can respect this view, but at the same time, infectious diseases are public problems by nature. I am skeptical state coercion would work (didn't even work in China), but I don't think a laissez faire attitude on the cultural level is rational. We should "pressure" people to be vaccinated in the same way we pressure people to not do other dangerous things!