As someone who’s used GraphQL since mid-2015, if you haven’t used GraphQL with Relay you probably haven’t experienced GraphQL in a way that truly exploits its strengths.

I say probably because in the last ~year Apollo shipped functionality (fragment masking) that brings it closer.

I stand by my oft-repeated statement that I don’t use Relay because I need a React GraphQL client, I use GraphQL because I really want to use Relay.

The irony is that I have a lot of grievances about Relay, it’s just that even with 10 years of alternatives, I still keep coming back to it.