Those aren't the ugly part of C++ and to be entirely honest reading those messages is not actually hard, it's just a lot of information.
Those errors are essentially the compiler telling you in order:
1. I tried to do this thing and I could not make it work.
2. Here's everything I tried in order and how each attempt failed.
If you read error messages from the top they make way more sense and if reading just the top line error doesn't tell you what's wrong, then reading through the list of resolution/type substitution failures will be insightful. In most cases the first few things it attempted will give you a pretty good idea of what the compiler was trying to do and why it failed.
If the resolution failures are a particularly long list, just ctrl-f/grep to the thing you expected to resolve/type-substitute and the compiler will tell you exactly why the thing you wanted it to use didn't work.
They aren't perfect error messages and the debugging experience of C++ metaprogramming leaves a lot to be desired but it is an order of magnitude better than it ever has been in the past and I'd still take C++ wall-o-error over the extremely over-reductive and limited errors that a lot of compilers in other languages emit (looking at you Java).
To be fair to C++, the only languages with actually decently debuggable metaprograms are Lisp and Prolog.
Modern C++ in general is so hostile to debugging I think it's astounding people actually use it.
Most of the time it's as uou say!
But "I tried to do this thing" error is completely useless in helping to find the reason why the compiler didn't do the thing it was expected to do, but instead chose to ignore.
Say, you hit ambiguous overload resolution, and have no idea what actually caused it. Or, conversely, implicit conversion gets hidden, and it helpfully prints all 999 operator << overloads. Or there is a bug in consteval bool type predicate, requires clause fails, and compiler helpfully dumps list of functions that have differet arguments.
How do you debug consteval, if you cannot put printf in it?
Not everyone can use clang or even latest gcc in their project, or work in a familiar codebase.