>Communism didn't look great next to capitalism (east europe vs. west europe) but those people were also happy
Which people were happy? Nobody hates communism more than Eastern Europeans. I don't know a single elderly (i.e. lived through communism) person in my country who doesn't hate communism. I think you have a rose tinted view of how communism worked out on Europe.
Plenty of people were 'content' enough and had a normalish childhood.
I don't want to romantesize it though.