I've felt this too as a person with ADHD, specifically difficulty processing information. Caveat: I don't vibe code much, partially because of the mental fatigue symptoms.
I've found that if an LLM writes too much code, even if I specified what it should be doing, I still have to do a lot of validation myself that would have been done while writing the code by hand. This turns the process from "generative" (haha) to "processing", which I struggle a lot more with.
Unfortunately, the reason I have to do so much processing on vibe code or large generated chunks of code is simply because it doesn't work. There is almost always an issue that is either immediately obvious, like the code not working, or becomes obvious later, like poorly structured code that the LLM then jams into future code generation, creating a house of cards that easily falls apart.
Many people will tell me that I'm not using the right model or tools or whatever but it's clear to me that the problem is that AI doesn't have any vision of where your code will need to organically head towards. It's great for one shots and rewrites, but it always always always chokes on larger/complicated projects, ESPECIALLY ones that are not written in common languages (like JavaScript) or common packages/patterns eventually, and then I have to go spelunking to find why things aren't working or why it can't generate code to do something I know is possible. It's almost always because the input for new code is my ask AND the poorly structured code, so the LLM will rarely clean up it's own crap as it goes. If anything, it keeps writing shoddy wrapper around shoddy wrappers.
Anyways, still helpful for writing boilerplate and segments of code, but I like to know what is happening and have control over how my code is structured. I can't trust the LLMs right now.
Agreed. Some strategies that seem to help exist, though. Write extensive tests before writing the code. They serve as guidance. Commit tests separately from library code, so you can tell the AI didn't change the test. Specify the task with copious examples. Explain why yo so things, not just what to do.