(Show HN?) Here is another attempt at providing intuition on complex numbers, the multiplication rule in particular: "Why does complex multiplication have to be the way it is?" https://gregfjohnson.com/complex/
I find that the easiest intuitive on-ramp to complex arithmetic is to start with compass headings: "Oh that nice coffee shop? Go two blocks north and then a block east." Numbers come with any direction on the compass, not just "east" and "west". It turns out that it is pretty easy to intuitively justify multiplication by a scalar and addition of complex numbers, but multiplication is harder. A great way to get a feel for multiplication is to consider the equation "(x+1)(x-1) = x*2 - 1". Then, substitute "i" for x. The left-hand side is (intuitively) on a circle of radius 2 centered at the origin, and the right-hand side is on a circle of radius 1, where the circle is shifted horizontally so that its center is on the real line at -1. There's only one place these two circles meet: -2 on the real line.