The most obvious "all-in-one" package is GitLab, if you have the hardware for it and don't mind bit of bloat but all the needed features in one package.
Personally, for smaller scale projects that still require collaboration over the web, Gitea/Forgejo + Woodpecker CI has been a really simple, lightweight and easy to maintain solution.
I am self host8ng forgejo. What can other CIs do that I could potentially need that is absent?
I really love Gitlab CI. I don't miss managing my own Gitlab server but I definitely prefer their CI product to actions.