> When an API returns JSON, your JS framework can decide what to do with it.
The JS framework is the frontend, so you're still coordinating.
> If its returning HTML that's intended to go in a particular place on a page, the front-end has far less flexibility and pretty much has to put it in a specific place.
Well yes, because presumably that's what the app is supposed to do. If it's not supposed to put it in that place, why would that be the specified target?
If this kind of static assignment of targets is not flexible enough for some reason, then use OOB updates which lets you replace fragments by id attribute. That lets you decouple some of these kinds of decisions.
Although "endpoints can return 3-5 different versions of HTML" is also a bit of a red flag that you're not using htmx correctly, generally endpoints should be returning 1, maybe 2 fragments in unusual cases.
In any case, you might find DataStar more to your liking, it's partway between React and htmx.
To clarify, there's nothing React or SPA about datastar. Moreover, HTMX v4 is essentially Datastar-lite (but heavier, and less capable)