I have plenty of anecdata that counters your anecdata.

LLMs can generate code that works. That much is true. You can generate sufficiently complex projects that simply run on the first (or second try). You can even get the LLM to write tests for the code. You can prompt it for 100% test coverage and it will provide you exactly what you want.

But that doesn't mean OP isn't correct. First, you shouldnt be remembering everything. If you are finding yourself remembering everything your project is either small (I'd guess less than 1000 lines) or you are overburdened and need help. Reasoning, logically, through code you write can be done JIT as you're writing the code. LLMs even suffer from the same problem. Instead of calling it "having to remember to much" we refer to it as a quantity called "context window". The only problem is the LLM won't prompt you telling you that it's context window is so full it can't do it's job properly. A human will.

I think an engineer should always be reasoning about their code. They should be especially suspicious of LLM generated code. Maybe I'm alone but if I use an LLM to generate code I will review it and typically end up modifying it. I find even prompting with something like "the code you write should be maintainable by other engineers" doesn't produce good value.