even if the datacenter provider owns the IP ranges and thus gets all the abuse mail, they are kind of incentivized to keep you as a customer? since you are paying them
also, if you get your own IP ranges then the provider won't care much about e.g. your clients scanning the internet / running malware
Another topic is DDoS to your clients which can exhaust the uplink bandwidth... Don't know much of it
We've yet to have any DDoS problems. We don't even use cloudflare proxy which we feel keeps our API and frontend super fast and responsive.