Auto mappers sincerely need to go away. They work kind of fine initially, but at the first custom field mapping or nested field extraction, you have to invest hours into mostly complete failures of unecessary DSLs in order to something that is extremely trivial to do in basic C#, and often it is impossible to shoe horn the necessary mapping into place. Then you have to deal with package upgrades which regularly rewrite custom mapping logic, and to be sure you have to write additional tests just to hand hold. With multi-caret editors and regex there is no need for automappers. You can write a mapping once and forget about it.

>so preoccupied with whether or not they could, they didn't stop to think if they should

This describes more than half of .net community packages and patterns. So much stuff driven by chasing "oh that's clever" high - forgetting that clever code is miserable to support in prod/maintain. Even when it's your code, but when it's third party libs - it's just asking for weekend debugging sessions and all nighters 2 months past initial delivery date. At some point you just get too old for that shit.