it's weird that both lsof and ss defaults are so awful
Like, ss without any options shows such arcane, rarely needed details as send/receive queue size but not the application socket belongs to.
And omits listening sockets which is main use for such tools.
I know picking the right defaults is hard ask but they managed to pick all the wrong defaults.
I think the same applies for many of the new breed of command line applications like fd and ag/rg.
Being able to use them intuitively trumps ubiquity, speed or features.