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jebarkeryesterday at 3:20 PM3 repliesview on HN

I just bought a Switch 2 having not really played games much for decades. I'm finding that occasional breaks for "mindless" gaming noticeably relaxes my always on, work obsessed brain. The challenge is overcoming the feeling that it's an unproductive use of time and I should be reading, coding, exercising etc. But in balance I think it's just the break my mind needs right now.


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fwipsyyesterday at 3:42 PM

I do this too, but it bothers me a little bit to think that my mind needs to be doing something all the time in order to feel relaxed. Video games are fun but the ones I play are not really that restful; ditto web browsing. I've been exploring breathing exercises, mindfulness, journaling, just listening to music by itself more but it's tough not to just get bored with it. Maybe that means I need to do it more.

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goaliecayesterday at 4:23 PM

People can be snobby about reading to the point of being too judgmental. Don’t feel guilty about your free time. There isn’t a hierarchy of pastimes with one better than another.

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hombre_fatalyesterday at 7:40 PM

I find that the feeling for me isn't about unproductive time but rather unfulfilling time.

A game can be fulfilling in some ways. Maybe it's a really good game. Or it's a way to socialize with friends or family.

It can also turn into a compulsion. That's why I avoid solo queue competitive multiplayer gaming. I try to only queue up with a friend, else I should go do something else.