Having been around in the industry for a while I'm seeing abstractions being misused all the time. Being guilty of it myself also when I was younger.

For me, the only purpose of an abstraction is to reduce complexity, but often times I'm seeing it being used to reduce repetitiveness, which often times replaces well understood more verbose code with less understood less verbose and less flexible alternative. For me, as a team lead, easy to read code is far more important than subjectively perceived elegant abstraction that everyone then has to learn how to use, and potentially fight with.

In many cases I have noticed people jumping into abstracting away a complexity right away, often times ending up with a leaky or inflexible abstraction. To those people I say, do that painful thing at least 10 times, then think about abstracting it away, since then you probably have some level of understanding about the pain you're trying to alleviate and all the nuances that comes with that domain.