> has simply not read and understood Contemporary Python Development 101.
They haven't. At the end of the day, they just want their program to work. You and I can design a utopian packaging system, but the physics PhD with a hand-me-down windows laptop and access to her university's Linux research cluster don't care about python other than it has a PITA library situation that UV addresses.
If they are not developers, it's the developer's responsibility to fix that. The developers have many options available for this.