> "Plus by noticing things you are doing it already makes inner critic quieter, and this is THE practice to get rid of it"
This is the claim I don't believe, and wrote all that to argue the case against it.
How long until you get rid of it? If the answer is "hopefully it just magically goes away in a few years" that isn't an effective method.
Whats the point of having this discussion if you just dont believe them? Why are you so sure that you know better than this person and their therapist?