> To me, it felt like the feature was presented as a done deal because of security.
Not security, but integrity, although security (which is the #1 concern of companies relying on a platform responsible for trillions of dollars) is certainly one of the primary motivations for integrity (others being performance, backward compatibility or "evolvability", and correctness). Integrity is the ability of code to locally declare its reliance on some invariant - e.g. that a certain class must not be extended, that a method can only be called by other methods in the same class, or that a field cannot be reassigned after being assigned in the constructor - and have the platform guarantee that the invariant is preserved globally throughout the lifetime of the program, no matter what other code does. What we call "memory safety" is an example of some invariants that have integrity.
This is obviously important for security as it significantly reduces the blast radius of a vulnerability (some attacks that can be done in JS or Python cannot be done in Java), but it's also important for performance, as the compiler needs to know that certain optimisations preserve meaning. E.g. strings cannot be constant-folded if they can't be relied upon to be truly immutable. It's also important for backward-compatibility or "evolvability", as libraries cannot depend on internals that are not explicitly exposed as public APIs; libraries doing that was the cause of the migration pain from Java 8 to 9+, as lots of libraries depended on internal, non-API methods that have changed when the JDK's evolution started picking up steam.
In Java, we've adopted a policy we call Integrity by Default (https://openjdk.org/jeps/8305968), which means that code in one component can violate invariants established by code in another component only if the application is made aware of it and allows it. What isn't allowed is for a library - which could be some fourth-level dependency - to decide for itself at some point during the program's execution, without the application's knowledge, that actually strings in this program should be mutable. We were, and are, open to any ideas as long as this principle is preserved.
Authors of components that do want to do such things find the policy inconvenient because their consumers need to do something extra that isn't required when using normal libraries. But this is a classic case of different users having conflicting requirements. No matter what you do, someone will be inconvenienced. We, the maintainers of the JDK, have opted for a solution that we believe minimises the pain and risk overall, when integrated over all users: Integrity is on by default, and components that wish to break it need an explicit configuration option to allow that.
> built on a solid foundation with ByteBuddy
ByteBuddy's author acknowledges that at least some aspects of ByteBuddy - and in particular the self-loading agent that Mockito used - weren't really a solid foundation, but now it should be: https://youtu.be/AzfhxgkBL9s?t=1843. We are grateful to Rafael for explaining his needs to us so that we could find a way to satisfy them without violating Integrity by Default.
> some attacks that can be done in JS or Python cannot be done in Java
Examples?
What am I missing that makes this change a massive headache if just setting a flag gets the old behavior?
Is there a point at which library maintainer feedback would meaningfully influence a by-default JVM change?
I keep a large production Java codebase and its deployments up-to-date. Short of upstreaming fixes to every major dependency, the only feasible way to continue upgrading JDK/JVM versions has often been to carry explicit exceptions to new defaults.
JPMS is a good example: --add-opens still remains valuable today for important infra like Hadoop, Spark, and Netty. If other, even more core projects (e.g. Arrow) hadn't modernized, the exceptions would be even more prolific.
If libraries so heavily depended upon like Mockito are unable to offer a viable alternative in response to JEP 451, my reaction would be to re-enable dynamic agent attachment rather than re-architect many years of test suites. I can't speak for others, but if this reaction holds broadly it would seem to defeat the point of by-default changes.