Weird. Encryption these days (in Element Web/Desktop and Element X at least) should be pretty robust - although this whole identity reset thing is a known bug on Element Web/Desktop. You can submit debug logs from Settings: Help & About: Submit Debug Logs, and hopefully that might give a hint on what's going wrong.
No “Submit Debug Logs” there, as far as I can see. Do I need to be on matrix.org homeserver for this to work or something?
https://photos.goldstein.lol/share/OIgowBN4Wmi4zlm8DmDP0s8jH...