No, rather both are on opposite sides of an equation, and being buried in competition from folks trying to solve their part of it in isolation.

Women == get too much attention, often of the wrong type. How to get the right kind of attention?

Men == not getting any attention, of any type. How to get some attention?

So women either get ‘the wrong kind’ of attention, but plenty of it - or somehow figure out the magic of getting the right kind of attention? Not easy.

And men work hard to get any attention, often overdoing it on the only way they can figure out - which usually has poor (but not zero!) results. Folks good at playing the game get excellent results, however.

Meanwhile, everyone is getting played by the folks in the middle.

Notably, there are plenty of women taking advantage of the attention they get on Tinder. They just have no problem solving for what it works for, which is getting laid with near zero effort.

The way this previously got figured out was a ‘managed market’ - arranged marriages. Religious/social rules, etc.